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Date:         Wed, 29 Jul 1998 16:14:42 -0500
Reply-To:     Kerril Bauerly <Kerril.Bauerly@LABONE.COM>
Sender:       "SAS(r) Discussion" <SAS-L@UGA.CC.UGA.EDU>
From:         Kerril Bauerly <Kerril.Bauerly@LABONE.COM>
Subject:      Re: manners/respect REAL life
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According to my boss you have 2 options: 1) you can file a grievance with HR and HR will have to deal with it. 2) If you don't want to go through your company at all, you can contact EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Council). When you contact them, you will be filing a suit against the company. The EEOC will forward it to the company and they have to respond. EEOC will take care of the litigation from there.

This will allow you to avoid your boss.

Good Luck! Kerril Bauerly LabOne, Inc Lenexa, KS

-----Original Message----- From: Innis Sande [mailto:isande@NOTES.CC.BELLCORE.COM] Sent: Wednesday, July 29, 1998 3:19 PM To: SAS-L@VM.MARIST.EDU Subject: Re: manners/respect REAL life

I have many times been tempted to throttle coworkers. But I would have been fired instantly. How large a company do you work for? Some have couseling services. At least your HR or Personnel dept. should have a complaint procedure and should be able to advise you. Good luck Innis.

calgaryinnyc@HOTMAIL.COM on 07/29/98 03:41:26 PM

Please respond to calgaryinnyc@HOTMAIL.COM

To: SAS-L@UGA.CC.UGA.EDU cc: (bcc: Innis Sande/Bellcore) Subject: manners/respect REAL life

Hello Sas Users: I am not a newbie, although using an alias and a fake email accnt. I am faced with a situation which I am uncertain how to deal with. Im in my mid 20s, have been employed at my present position for 4 years. Have attended SUGI and NYUSERS group meetings. Have been posting and helping in SAS-L for 3 years. Know both Ian and Ray as well as many of the SAS-L 'regulars'...and people from NYUsers Group. Although, this is not SAS related...I need your advice. I have enjoyed a very 'pleasant' (over all (there was one other incident not with the below mentioned though)) working environment (for 3 years), although, recently that has been changed. A co-worker, a PhD, slapped me across my face last Friday. He hasnt apologized, I have not filed charges. (He slaped me according to him, because he was frightened and it was a reaction.) I went to our supervisor and brought his attention to this matter. This is where I am not sure how to act. I feel that my boss has no regard for my safety, nor for taking steps to acknowledge how severe this type of behavior should be dealt with. Monday I at the end of the day approached him (boss) to find the status of the situation and how it was being dealt with. I strongly believe and feel if my safety and my sense of security wre an issue to him, he would have called me into his office. The fact that I had to go is a statement in itself. I learned that he(boss) spoke to the 'slapper' and the 'slapper' claimed it was a reaction. At this 'meeting' I felt that no steps were taken to insure that the 'slapper' take responsibility for his actions. Further, I requested that 'the slapper' apologize to me. To which the boss responded 'i am not a social mediator, you work your personal differences on your own!' with a grimace and a tone that suggested 'Ive had enough, and you are a problem.' We have a policy against workplace violence 'the (nameofcomp) is committed to providing a work environment that is safe and secure as possible...this includes, but is not limited to threatening, fighting, assault and sexual harassment. Violation of this policy is grounds for disciplinary action up to and including termination from employment'. What DO YOU ALL think disciplinary action means? I am sooooooooooo angry. I am a professional...and I feel that no one realizes how severe striking a woman (or anyone) is. Initially I didnt want the 'slapper' fired, I wanted the boss to acknowledge what happened, and to take STRONG measures against it. I surmise I cant specify how belittled I felt why my boss, tells me A. "There are worse things than being hit accross the face. We live in a sheltered society. Woman are being beaten by their boyfriends/husbands everyday." (i was bewildered as an educated man tells me this.) B."Why are you starring at me?" [I was speechless when he said he wasnt a mediator] (in an extremely RUDE Belittling tone, like Im occupying his time with shit). I feel like women have rights here. The simplest is to resign. Although, I dont back down from a fight. Any and all suggestions are welcome...and please dont frwd this around, because the PhD is also a statistican/SAS programmar.

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